Frequent Questions

The deceased is placed in a combustible box, which is used during refrigerated storage and then placed in the cremation chamber. Family or clergy can choose to be present at the initiation of the cremation process. After cremation, the remains consist of bone fragments and a minimal amount of ash from the box; these are pulverized to a uniform consistency and placed in the desired container. Family or clergy can choose to receive the cremated remains at the crematory or some other designated place.

While it is true that the cost of cremation is about 20% that of body burial many people are choosing and planning cremation because of other factors. These include the simplicity and dignity of cremation services, environmental concerns, and flexibility cremation offers in ceremony planning and in the disposition of the remains.

No. It is not necessary to engage the services of a separate funeral home.

The deceased may be clothed as desired by the family. A military uniform, scholastic robe, or other special garment may be cremated. Often the special clothing is neatly folded and cremated with the deceased.

These parts include metal buttons and medals, hip replacement joints, dental gold, etc. After cremation, large fragments of metal that can readily be separated from the ashes are removed and discarded prior to pulverizing. Dental gold is not recoverable and is dispersed through the remains. Some items have to be removed from the deceased prior to cremation because of explosive risks; these include cardiac pacemakers and implanted measured dose dispensing devices.

Embalming is necessary only if there is to be a public viewing or if the body is taken into a church.

The quantity of cremated remains of an adult is comparable to the size of a 6x6x6 box or a large dictionary. Since it consists mostly of bone fragments, it is fairly heavy. Because of pulverizing, the appearance is somewhat like that of crushed seashells. Unless an urn is purchased, the cremated remains are returned in a temporary urn.

It is always best if agreement can be reached that the family will respect the wishes of a person who chooses cremation, and will abide by that agreement after the death occurs. Discussion with a cremation counselor, funeral director, clergyman, chaplain, or other adviser may help with this decision. If agreement cannot be reached before death occurs, the person choosing cremation may decide to make plans for cremation despite the opposition. In this case, he should ensure that the Will specifies the desire for cremation and that plans are on file, preferably with a cremation provider.

Yes, if such a funeral is desired, the deceased can be embalmed and placed in a rental casket. With cremation the full funeral can be held without the expense of purchasing a casket or vault.

Cremation offers a wide array of ceremonies from which to choose. A private or public visitation can be held before cremation is done. A memorial service can be held in place of worship or at the cremation provider’s facility, with or without the cremated remains; this can be delayed as long as necessary after the death to allow family and friends to gather from distant locations. Some churches and retirement communities routinely handle these memorial services themselves, without the involvement of the cremation provider. Other possibilities include graveside services at the cemetery or columbarium. A scattering ceremony offers a personal touch only cremation can provide.

One possibility is to request that cremated remains be returned to the nearest of kin, so that a decision about their disposition can be made later. Cremated remains can be buried in a cemetery plot or placed in a mausoleum or columbarium. If the cemetery is far from the place of death, the cremation provider can send the remains registered mail. Some churches have a columbarium or memorial garden where cremated remains can be placed; this is usually limited to church members and their families. Family members can also bury cremated remains on their own private property, depending on local ordinances. 

Scattering of cremated remains is an increasingly popular choice. The scattering can be done by the cremation provider, by the family or by clergy, either privately or a part of a ceremony. Cremated remains can be scattered on uninhabited public land or public waterway, if ordinances permit. It can also be done on private property, with the written permission of the property owner. Careful thought should be given to the matter before choosing scattering in a location which will be frequented by family members; depending on their personal philosophies, they may be either comforted or distressed by knowing that this has been done.

To prevent your survivors from having to make decisions and arrangements at the time of your death, you can chose a cremation provider and prearrange your cremation. They can also keep the personal data and authorizations which will be required for your death certificate, so that your survivors will not have to be asked for this information during an emotional time. You may also prepay the expensed of your cremation.

**Specific to Carteret County-Other counties of death will have to be contacted personally for instructions**

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